Should You Move Closer to Your Grandkids in Retirement?

Retirement is a time of freedom and independence — your chance to do more of the things you love. But it’s not just about having more free time; it’s also an opportunity to focus on what matters most to you — whether that’s the ocean, the mountains, or your family.

If you’re someone who relates to this quote from Lois Wyse — “If I had known how wonderful it would be to have grandchildren, I’d have had them first.” — then be able to retire near your grandchildren could play a big role in your senior living decisions.

Grandparents relocating in retirement to be near grandkids is one of the most common factors influencing where older adults choose to live. If you want to be around your grandchildren more often than just holidays and birthdays, it’s important to know moving close to your grandkids can benefit everyone involved.

Let’s explore the advantages of spending more time with your kids and grandkids — and share activity ideas that transcend age and create lasting memories.

Retirement Near Grandchildren Benefits

Studies show that intergenerational programs offer meaningful benefits for both younger and older participants. Here are a few ways spending time with grandkids can positively impact your life:

• Having fun: Kids are silly, curious, and insightful — qualities that can bring joy and spontaneity to your everyday life.
• A sense of anticipation: Life can feel routine at times. Having something to look forward to — like a weekend visit or school play — adds excitement and purpose.
• Purpose and meaning: Whether through play, attending events, or simply sharing your life experience, engaging with grandkids gives you a sense of purpose.
• Exercise: Kids are full of energy. While you’re not expected to keep up with them, walking, playing, or joining in activities can help you stay active and boost your mood and memory.
• Social connection: Interacting with people of all ages — especially family — fosters a sense of belonging and helps combat loneliness.
• Staying current: Kids love to share what they know — especially about the latest technology. Grandkids can help you stay updated in fun, casual ways.

Suggested Activities with Grandkids

You may be surprised how much of what you did with your own children still applies when spending time with your grandkids.

Music classes or concerts: Music connects people of all ages. Living nearby means you can attend your grandchild’s school performances or even join them in a music class. You could also introduce them to your favorite musicians or musical styles.

Gardening: Gardening is a relaxing and rewarding activity that allows different generations to bond while nurturing plants, vegetables, or flowers. It’s also a great way to share knowledge and create new traditions.

Cooking together: Cooking is a joyful, hands-on way to share family recipes and learn new skills — from both sides. It also provides time to chat and connect (with cookies, of course).

Arts and crafts: Creative projects like painting, drawing, or building things together can foster genuine connections and mutual learning.

We’re Building a Community for the Entire Family

If you’re exploring senior living options near family in the Groton area, consider Vista Point at Fairview. We understand how important family is to your well-being. As the only nonprofit Life Plan senior living community in Southeastern Connecticut that combines a vibrant lifestyle with breathtaking waterfront views, we’re also building a place where you can enjoy more quality time with your grandkids.

To learn more, call (860) 968-VIEW (8439) or contact us here.